THE POWER OF BEING THE GAME

Having a vagina comes with a HUGE responsibility.
That responsibility lies right there inside of you. It's your uterus.
The final power is about controlling two very important decisions in your life:
                            WHEN you get pregnant
and
                            WHO you allow to father your children.

These two decisions are completely under YOUR CONTROL.

If you don’t know the answers to these two questions, then now is the time to really think about your ideal scenario. Figure out when you would prefer to start having kids. Think about the kind of man you would want to father your children.

These are some of the most important decisions you will ever have to make in your lifetime. What's even more important is making sure you are the one who controls these decisions.

Don’t allow fate or the men in your life to make these decisions for you.

Some of you are already maintaining a tight control over your uterus. If you're a pro at keeping that thing locked down like a prison cell, that's great! Keep it up.

 But some of us…not so much. It's time to address this situation because it’s becoming a big problem for us.

As women, we need to respect the responsibility of having a uterus, and we haven’t been doing a very good job at it. We need to accept the reality that a majority of unplanned pregnancies are our own fault.

We put ourselves into bad situations by not taking the necessary amount of responsibility for our own body parts. We’ve been too sloppy with our miracle makers! God gave us this awesome privilege and what do we do with it? Go around passing out miracles to men who are unworthy and unappreciative.

Every day men are impregnating us and then leaving us to deal with the responsibility on our own. It has forced women to step up and become Mothers and Fathers — all while working a full time job. It's not healthy for us, it's not healthy for society; but more importantly, it's not healthy for our children.

We like to blame it all on dead beat dads, but we are the ones ALLOWING dead beat men to lay down with us! Don't get me wrong, men need to step up as well.
This isn’t about giving them a free pass for being piece of shit fathers. The problem is we can’t control what men do (or don't do), but we can control what we do. That's where the power lies, right there in that uterus of yours.

Accidents happen; babies are made and lives get interrupted in the process.

 I understand this is a part of life.

 In fact, it’s the harsh reality of being a woman.

 I’m not downing any woman who has had an accidental pregnancy, or who is a single mother and/or a teen mother. In fact, you’re probably a wiser and stronger woman because of that experience.
I give you 100% respect, because I know it was probably one of the hardest things you have ever had to go through. However, that’s not to say that single mothers and/or teen mothers wouldn't agree with everything I’m saying. I think it’s safe to say that at least 90% would agree and pass along these same words of wisdom.

That’s not to say that I’m perfect, either.

Unfortunately, we don't ever stop to think about what that really means until we're sitting on the toilet crying over a positive pregnancy test. It’s in that exact moment that you realize: “That was a lot easier than I thought.”

The even bigger and harsher realization is that it's too late to take it back. That’s when the panic sets in. Your little one-time mistake just changed your life forever.

Before you know it, you’re locked down for the next 20 years working HARD every day to take care of your child.

 Raising a child is a full time job. Shit, it’s more than a full time job. It’s a 365 days a year, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, never ending HARD job.

Personal goals, dreams, and accomplishments temporarily fly out the window. Your life is no longer your own and it changes forever once you have children. By being in full control of your reproductive organs, you’re maintaining full control of your life, your future, and your child's future.

By being extremely responsible and careful with your body, you are subconsciously making a bold statement to the men in your life.

You’re saying: “When I do decide to have children; they’ll be with a man who’s going to marry me, take care of me, and hold my hand throughout the entire process.”

 It also says, “I’m very picky about who I share my DNA with.”

This is a very empowering and respectable statement to make to the men in your life. How do you make this statement if it’s subconscious? You make it silently, by taking the lead when it comes to your body.
By utilizing the power of your uterus, you are also utilizing other powers, such as the power of being the game. You’re not making it easy for men to get you pregnant. You’re being picky and choosy about who you allow to impregnate you.

This will give you control over men instead of being dependent upon them. It will also enable you to live a happier and healthier life; simply by staying in control of who gets you pregnant and when you allow them to do it.

If you’ve been one bit irresponsible about this, I'm here to tell you to tighten up! It’ll happen a lot quicker than you expect. If you’re young and you’ve been having unprotected sex, cut it out.

 You’ll be knocked up and pregnant before you know it! Sometimes we just need to be reminded how easily one can become pregnant. Pulling out won't work every time. Plan B won’t work every time. Condoms break.

If you’ve been thinking you can’t get pregnant because it’s been years and you’re not pregnant yet, think again. BAM. It happens like lighting! Just because it hasn’t happened yet, doesn’t mean it won’t happen tomorrow.

 Take responsibility. Don’t listen to men or take their advice about your body. If he says he’ll pull out and that it will work, tell him that jacking off works too! If he says he shoots blanks and never got a girl pregnant before, tell him you’re not going to be the first. Be firm and take the lead when it comes to protecting yourself.

I’m not saying that having a baby will destroy your life, or that if you have a baby with somebody who isn’t 100% percent there, that you won’t be able to do it. I think women are the strongest creatures on the planet. We adapt and we make it happen, no matter what.
It honestly doesn't matter what obstacle comes in our way, we will overcome it for the love of our babies.

 If a man comes into our life and then leaves or half asses his responsibility, we will handle the situation and take care of our children by ourselves. But just because we can, doesn’t mean we should.

Sourced from KARA KING'S POTP

chica!