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Tuesday 16 August 2016

YOU BROKE UP WITH ME VIA a TEXT MESSAGE

To the boy who dumped me through text message
I know alot of time has elapsed since you dropped this"bombshell" on my inbox...and I'm glad I'm finally doing this.
It has taken me alot of courage to do this. I probably should have inboxed you this too...but I did it publicly because I know there is alot of your type out there and there's also some girl somewhere who'd want to write someone this same letter, not in the exact words...but someway, somehow...

I know I should say thank you for the time we shared bla...bla....but that's bullshit.
You gave me bullshit...and I used that bullshit as manure and watch...just watch me grow.
I loved you so much that it scared you...I understand. That's just my world.

I must admit I was flabbergasted by your abrupt decision.
It portrayed you as a boy! A coward!
Of course you deserve to be happy, everyone does...but you have to earn it. I just hope you've grown up since we last talked and meet a girl you will be happy with.

I want you to know that the gazillion missed calls and text messages from me you got after you broke up with me were not meant to mend the broken pieces , but just to get answers.
I needed answers...because no sane person just wakes up and dumps a lady...ME, through a text message. It was sooooo rude of you to do that. It was so convenient for you to just push the send button and end a beautiful story that was at its peak,then ignore me for ages...then out of the blues start creeping into my social media and asking me, the same person you dumped, for random hookups.

Until now, I don't know what your reasons for leaving were. Apart from the "I'm opening for you the door to meeting a better person than me" excuse of a reason you texted. But whatever that statement meant, you were my better person. Infact my best but, you lost me because of your esteem issues, maybe...

I'm proud of me because when you left, I thought I'd never get over you. I cried and sulked...time has proved me wrong...look at me now!!

You need to man up...
Next time, incase you want to walk out on a lady...be courteous enough to do it in person and explain why you have to leave... nobody's saying it will make it less hurting, but it sure will leave both on a level ground. Each leaves with some dignity and respect.

Love should not be the only reason we should be glued to crap... use that bullshit to grow... let it give you the nutrients to grow into something better.

And when you finally read this, don't miss to share. Share . share

This is my world...
 Call me Chica!

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