Its 2.30 am
Maybe I can’t catch sleep or maybe I woke up already
I have access to a mega fast Wi-Fi, maybe it’s the one keeping me
awake…just maybe
I keep debating in my head whether to chat on my WhatsApp groups
all night…Or should I watch videos on YouTube…or should I do a random article
or should I read a bible?
As I decide, I get a twitter notification and to satisfy my curiosity
I follow the tweeper to get more on what had been posted
It got me thinking….
Thinking about how many best friends I’ve lost. Friends with whom
we used to be so close but now it feels like we’re strangers, we used to check
up on each other but now, their contacts just lay on my phone and we keep
stalking each other’s WhatsApp statuses hoping someday, just someday they’ll reach
out first
Yesterday I bumped into my crush at the mall and I’ve been dying
to talk to my bff about it. My boyfriend’s drama got into my head and I need
someone to laugh it off with. I feel like making bad decisions, which I know
are bad but I just want her voice of reason to tell me ‘DON’T’. All these I want,
but I keep hoping my best friend hits me up first.
What if yesterday her mom fell sick? What if her boyfriend broke
up with her? What if she passed out to a comma, will I be the first to know? What
if she’s going through hell and is also waiting for me to reach out and be her comfort?
what if …. What if
What if that friend whom you claim no longer talks to you or doesn’t
check up on you is going through a lot and wonders why nobody’s checking on
them?
Its common on the internet to always come across articles on “open
letters to my friend who became a stranger” and memes and philosophies about
how friendships end
Friendships can be a confusing thing because there’s no end goal
but we need it anyway
You know dating ends at marriage. What about a friendship?
However, it’s always two way. Our friends need us just as much as
we need them to check on us, make us laugh, listen to our sometimes made up
stories and brighten most dull days
We always play the victim when friendships turn into stranger-ships
yet we lowkey know it was partly our fault
Instagram captions are long assed and sweet especially on Wednesdays(WCW)
and on birthdays. May we practise what we pretend to be with our friends behind
technology.
It takes maturity to accept that we messed up
Friendships, just like any other relationship, needs time, commitment
and sacrifice
Today, I challenge you to hit up that long lost best friend and ask how they are doing. Call your best friend and appreciate them. maybe it's just what they needed today! I just did,by the way
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Call me Chica!
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